Connective Parenting

[0:02] ..." confident parents remarkable kids and she has this advice for parents. Each child she says is completely different and requires different expectations. And approaches to problems and issues."...

[0:14] ..." It was a totally confident parent with my. The first child my son he was just easygoing he was. Happy go lucky you know he had his -- tantrums but it's nothing I"...

[0:37] ..." So that means parents have to change their approach depending on the child's --"...

[0:42] ..." A child who is particularly strongly open resistance is not being defined and she's just being herself for who she is and when Lee. Seen that behavior that we don't light and decided that we have to change it. Then we get into a power struggle because often we're trying to raise. The child that we want not the child we."...

[1:05] ..." Have Harris feels neither punishment no reward teaches kids anything worthwhile. She says it's connecting with them that's essential."...

[1:13] ..." Connected parenting is holding. Well the child and the parents responsible for it themselves. Not for each other. If I'm yelling and screaming at my child a lot of the time and then I'm really upset because she's screaming at me. I need to look at myself and"...

[0:00]" Harris is the author of confident parents remarkable kids and she has this advice for parents. Each child she says is completely different and requires different expectations. And approaches to problems and issues."

[0:14]" It was a totally confident parent with my. The first child my son he was just easygoing he was. Happy go lucky you know he had his -- tantrums but it's nothing I couldn't handle and I thought I was the best and the world. And then four and a half years later I had my daughter and -- proudly reminding you that you as an enigma to nations totally different."

[0:37]" So that means parents have to change their approach depending on the child's --"

[0:42]" A child who is particularly strongly open resistance is not being defined and she's just being herself for who she is and when Lee. Seen that behavior that we don't light and decided that we have to change it. Then we get into a power struggle because often we're trying to raise. The child that we want not the child we."

[1:05]" Have Harris feels neither punishment no reward teaches kids anything worthwhile. She says it's connecting with them that's essential."

[1:13]" Connected parenting is holding. Well the child and the parents responsible for it themselves. Not for each other. If I'm yelling and screaming at my child a lot of the time and then I'm really upset because she's screaming at me. I need to look at myself and see what I'm bringing. To the picture and how can I change my reactions. So that we can connect."